This is VERY GOOD advice . . . it had never occurred to me that staff might seclude or restrain until I had opportunity to talk to a mom of profoundly autistic child at one of our elementary schools a few years back . . . she gave me to understand this practice was not necessarily reserved for "special ed" children OR for when truly necessary (safety) . . . her stories were horrifying to me (and to her) . . . but I was too new to all of this to get the possible implications for our own situation . . .