Yeah-- believe me, it's VERY real. If you're one of the 1%ers, here, this kind of thinking is NOT NOT NOT helpful. At all.
It's this kind of "debunking" that really ought to ONLY be coming from a physician who is plenty familiar with the patient in question.
Truly. It's like telling a diabetic that blood sugars above 400 aren't possible if you're conscious. Well, um-- for some people, very unusual people-- it IS.
My thinking about this is to (as an advocate) point out that for someone who is on the sensitive end of the spectrum, FINE... don't believe that breathing it in is harmful. Still-- if it can be SMELLED, then how much of the residue is present in that environment, hmm? How safe is it? How stressful for the person who smells DEATH everywhere around him/her, and knows that one accidental touch could result in just that, hmm?
Honestly, arguing whether or not allergen aerosols are real is about like arguing germ theory with someone who has no access to a microscope. You can't win this argument in the first place-- they CAN'T really understand what you're saying, and to them the world really is that black and white.
So change the conversation by focusing on the ENTIRE environment.
If you can smell it, contact is a risk, too. PERIOD.