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Author Topic: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!  (Read 364 times)

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Offline SilverLining

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Re: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!
« Reply #15 on: July 02, 2018, 02:21:57 PM »
I am so sorry about her reaction. Relieved she is fine.

It may be that he is afraid of a law suit, but imo that is no reason to be completely rude about it. Did he call to ask how DD was after she went to hospital?
Too many people miss the silver lining because they're expecting gold.  ~~~  Maurice Setter


Offline ctmartin

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Re: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!
« Reply #16 on: July 02, 2018, 10:48:13 PM »

Yes, Silver, he did text me the morning after.  I think my big problem is how complacent he was about the whole thing ... even before the reaction and also DURING (when he was trying to tell me that I was just being a neurotic mom!  You think at that point he would have though, "Hmmm ... did I even check these ingredients?  I better do that NOW!").  Also, he was not transparent at all in the aftermath, and we were really freaked out because we figured he had already checked everything and perhaps she had developed a new allergy.  It took me pushing and pushing before I got him to (somewhat) admit that it "could have been the bread and the ccinque cereali flour!"

OMG ... I could KILL him!  Kill!!  These recent fatalities are really tugging at my heartstrings and I am in a really bad place right now, even though I should just be grateful that she is OK.  It's going to take a lot of work for me to move beyond the "what if" that keeps appearing in my nightmares and let go of this.

Offline GoingNuts

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Re: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!
« Reply #17 on: July 03, 2018, 06:00:01 AM »
I totally get that, CT.   :console: :grouphug:
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Offline Ciel

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Re: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!
« Reply #18 on: July 03, 2018, 10:57:12 AM »
Iím so sorry, ctm. Nightmares are horrible places to linger. I hope they fade soon so you can begin to find some peace with the events of that day.  :heart:

Offline PurpleCat

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Re: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!
« Reply #19 on: July 04, 2018, 09:37:14 AM »
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Offline tigerlily

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Re: ANA Reaction Abroad ... Surviving MY Unthinkable!
« Reply #20 on: July 09, 2018, 09:09:54 PM »
 :grouphug:

So sorry for your experience, so sorry that it was from a friend. Glad your daughter is okay.
DS1-PA, TNA, SFA
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