One more thought (and this is general, not necessarily specific in light of what you just posted above):
there may be reason to be VERY cautious about encouraging a child in the tween/teens to become somewhat cavalier about this constellation of symptoms. I can think of two reasons why this makes me profoundly uneasy.
1. In girls in particular, we (culturally, I mean) often train them to be socially gracious/submissive to begin with, and this kind of thing can be deadly with respect to anaphylaxis if they assimilate the message wholeheartedly-- that is, at what point DO the symptoms become "enough" to tell? Enough to insist upon care? Enough to over-ride another authority figure? Where is that line if we deliberately encourage them to "ignore" or "don't bother me/your dad/your teacher/the nurse/the doctor" with that?
1a. Secondary to even food allergy concerns, this kind of "Ignore what you're feeling because {external authority} said so, and they know better than you do" has profoundly disturbing ramifications. It teaches our kids to ignore their gut instincts in a very powerful and insidious way. If it's necessary, so be it-- but I'd probably choose to address it VERY carefully, and make it clear that it's an exception, and NOT the 'rule.' I can see this fueling intimate partner abuse in a very significant way.
2. Depending upon history and other FA Dx, this may necessitate a kind of 'parsing' of symptoms and their probable causes (and likely sequelae) that teens and young adults may really not be yet equipped to be doing. Or, for that matter, that there may BE no parsing. After all, hives + oral tingling/itching is two systems... except that it's local and probably a matter of direct contact with the allergen... is it systemic? Or not? Who knows, right? In my own DD's case, however, there might be few other symptoms prior to abrupt and complete incapacitation and inability to care for herself, even insofar as calling for help and using an epipen.
Anyway. I'm pretty sure that our guest has considered a lot of these things.
I'm just adding to the implied (and wholly appropriate) caution in the original post. There are a LOT of reasons to think that this kind of thing could be extremely dangerous. Extremely.