Hello,
I wanted to comment on the Disney Cruise. We did not see the same great allergy awareness on the cruise line that we experienced at Disney World On our Alaska cruise with Disney the waiters were more interested in up selling us wine at dinner that answering or dealing with my daughter's food allergies. When booking I had outlined by daughter's food allergies and reconfirmed before boarding. While the waiters had been informed of my DD allergies they had no idea how to deal with it. We did not complain to the restaurant, and so perhaps it could have been rectified.
Overall it went well, we found a safe place that served burgers, fries, pizza and soft serve ice cream, so the kids were happy.
Mom2DD