Some issues addressed in this thread:
1. School moving very slowly.
2. School saying an accommodation request is not "reasonable".
3. DS/DD has to learn to live in the "real world".
4. Told that some accommodations are "off the table" before even writing the plan.
5. Told that the school "can't control... blah-blah-blah"
6. Harassment, intimidation, and/or threats to release medical information.
7. Some red flags it might be "lawyer time".
8. School holding a 504 meeting without the parent(s).
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Sorry CM
, I seem to be relying heavily on your quotes here ... but they are often so clever, non-personal, & potentially useful to others in similar situations.