I think so too, Maeve.
And my DD, at just past 13, was pressured strongly for "real kissing" by a first boyfriend. Because the boyfriend WOULD NOT take no for an answer (kept angling for 'will this work?' and 'what if I didn't eat anything unsafe for a week?') she eventually took a hard look at the entire relationship and realized that she just couldn't trust his judgment well enough, and that the fact that he couldn't seem to respect "I'm not doing that" meant that he ultimately didn't respect HER, either....
which ultimately was a romance killer, I think.
It's an FA thing. Most people don't understand. The scary ones are the ones that insist that they CAN understand, and proceed to attend the University of Google for a week and then "know all about it."
The fact that he enlisted a considerably older friend of his to try to convince my DD that her parents had been using SCARE TACTICS on her all this time, though....
that I didn't see coming. Why yes, I felt NO compunction about 'educating' that particular junior genius in a hurry, and speed loses some finesse, to be sure...
It was a great opportunity to discuss healthy
boundaries all the way around, however-- and I took it for that glorious opportunity.