They know that I know the law and they also know I will fight for what my DD needs and if necessary get my allergist's backup for those things. I had to do that a few years ago when I had her 504 changed to allow me or my husband at all the parties (only 2 parents per party back then, now they allow 3). This is our last year at this school and I am the room parent so there will be nothing unsafe in DD's class.
They did not mention if they were going to use that letter, just that they would review. I will be resigning from all of my volunteering positions if they use the letter and form. I do a lot at the school and I am happy to make them scramble for the remainder of the year. I have nothing to lose since in June we are out! I cannot wait to be done.....I haven't told them that but my family knows and DD knows and she is ok with it. She's done too - totally happy to take a half day and do something better than a crappy party at school.
I will be at the school this afternoon and I would not be surprised if the principal asked to chat. I don't really have the time today but I will if he seeks me out. He is responsive.
What I really need to do is sit down and compose a letter to the person who is working on a district wide policy. I have a lot to say about that. I am so tired of the stress these allergy issues are causing.