Yes, there are many things that raise red flags for me about this story. There were obviously several failures
It really sounds like a perfect storm of parents who weren't as well-educated by a physician as they might have been (benadryl isn't how you treat anaphylaxis, after all), coupled with a school process that allowed a child like this to fall through the supposed safety net. Add to that a child who has never experienced full-blown anaphylaxis and you have a scenario where nobody around the child realizes how grave the danger is.
I can
guess that the school may have had an "epi-or-nothing" policy as a result of recent changes pushed by FAAN and AAAAI. Note that many of our own members have had to push back on treatment orders that include antihistamines in recent years, as well. Well, if my child's physician wants mild reactions treated that way, and the majority of her reactions (maybe all of them?) had always been of that variety...
I can see the school coming to a place where they'd tell a parent that if they want benadryl administered at school, that child can't have an epinephrine order as well.
KWIM?
As a parent,
I know that the epinephrine isn't a negotiable thing, but does someone who's only seen 'mild' reactions up until then? It might
seem like benadryl was more important, if you KWIM. Does some health "aide" know that in a peanut allergy, epi is NOT optional? Maybe. But maybe not. I notice that the mom here isn't reporting that she was told that by a school NURSE but by a health aid of some sort.
Calling home instead of 911 is also a common feature in school fatalities, I'm afraid. Often it's office or classroom staff that are simply too frightened to take action themselves.
The underlying problem, of course, is inadequate staffing and/or training. Scary as hell, sure. But it is maddeningly familiar and-- just--
AUGHHHHH....
to think that this is still happening after all this time.
I, too, hope that this was what Ms. Acebal meant, though it seems strange that it would "surprise" anyone unless they were out of touch with budgetary and staffing realities in schools.