I'm glad FAAN changed that about the suggestion to contact the class moms. Often, that doesn't go well because these Cupcake Queens want to have what THEY want (baked goods) which are unsafe for children with food allergies. And they will steamroll that agenda, e.g., "Valentine Cookies are fine for your allergic child, riiiigghttt? They are going to be sooooo cute!" (with fake smile and doesn't want response other than affirmative from allergy parent). Or, "Well, YOU are bringing something else for your allergic kid (so we can do anything we want), righhhht?" Or, "We are sooooo excited about playing Bingo with M&M's!!!" Then if allergy parent says "Actually, M&M's aren''t safe for peanut allergy" - - response is something like, "But so-and-so with PA eats them!" or "Ohhhh well I don't know whhhhhaattt we could do then!...." Then you go to the teacher, explain risks, changes are implemented (sometimes, that's IF you have a teacher that gets it and IF you've negotiated a 504 Plan (and most allergy parents don't have one!!) -- and the Class Moms don't talk to you for the rest of the year (and nor do their friends and other PTO moms!!). And, they proceed to isolate you for the rest of elementary school. All for wanting safe snacks. The kids don't care (young kids are happy with any snack!), it's the PTO MOMS!!!!!!
[Note: MOST allergic children just eat the baked goods because their parent is in denial and/or they don't want to make any waves with PTO or staff].
Does FAAN read here -- (or did someone write to them)? Are you listening? -- Because that's how those conversations usually go -- and they isolate the allergy parent/child. SCHOOL STAFF needs to be more proactive in setting guidlelines for food and/or eliminating/minimizing food. Did you hear about the 7yo that took a bite of the wrong food during a party (Omaha), was in a coma and life saved with ECMO (lung bypass) machine -- which most hospitals don't even have?!!!
I wish FAAN would be more assertive and explain the RISK of cross contamination and hidden ingredients. Baked goods are notoriously unsafe. Reference Dr. Wood's cookie story:
http://drrobertwood.com/myanaphylaxis.shtmlPerhaps FAAN could work with Dr. Wood to share his story on their website or in their recommendations.