I'm not a parent, but I am a Girl Guide leader, and I carry my 'no food' rules throughout the year and keep very strict food rules at camps and outings. I get a lot of flack from parents who tell me their child has allergies and then question me when I refuse to let them have anything with those allergens or traces thereof. i.e. a kid who is allergic to dairy (per her health form) came to an event with a letter saying she can eat pizza with cheese so she doesn't feel left out. (We requested that participants with allergies bring their own lunch that day because accommodating allergies wasn't an option - long story, not an event I planned.) I refused to serve it to her, but someone else did because they 'talked to the parent'. The kid ended up vomiting and had no Epi or Benadryl and told us that's normal and she was fine. Um... NO! Or the kid with a long list of 'allergies' from an E95 test and her parent wrote them on her health form and then questioned why her child couldn't eat XYZ food (containing her allergen) at camp when she eats it at home all the time. (I'm not going to question allergies on a health form, even if I know they are from an E95 panel, because anything listed as an allergy on a health form is considered off limits by me.) It's these questionable 'allergies' and poor allergy management displayed by so many parents (and adults) that make me look like I'm taking things too far. I try to explain these situations the best I can, from the perspective of providing an inclusive and safe environment for everyone, but other parents then tell me they don't take allergies so seriously because so many kids with 'allergies' can eat their allergen sometimes. It's difficult to provide proper education (to other adults and kids) when others are displaying risky behaviour all the time. I will stand my ground, keeping our meeting place food-free and making sure camps are safe for everyone, but with the rise of this E95 testing and sensitivities being called allergies more and more, I feel it is becoming more difficult to educate people on the definition and total avoidance required for true allergies/anaphylaxis.