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Offline Allergymom09

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What to do about anxiety in allergic child?
« on: September 06, 2014, 12:08:46 PM »
Hello I'm Stephanie. I have 4 sons, one who has multiple life threatening did allergies. He had his first reaction at 12 months and was tested and diagnosed with severe allergies at 18 months.

He is now 5. He is really good about letting people know he has allergies and asking about unfamiliar foods. I recently bought some Wowbutter. He is not allergic to soy and recently ate food that was cooked in soybean oil. I made him a sandwich with Wowbutter and honey. He hadn't eaten any but a tiny amount I gave him to try. He wolfed down an entire banana is like 60 seconds. He tends to eat too quickly, take large bites, and not chew well. Immediately upon finishing he looks not happy. I asked him what's wrong and he tells me he's allergic to Wowbutter. He feels sick so I walk him to the bathroom, he coughs and gags but nothing comes up and he fine.

I fixed him a different sandwich because I didn't want to push the issue. I think his reaction was more mental, Wowbutter tastes and smells just like peanut butter. I have told him his whole life that he is allergic to nuts and that peanut butter could make him really sick and even kill him. I didn't want to down play the seriousness of his allergies but I fear I have made him paranoid:-(

Do I make a mistake???

I am going to get him retested so hopefully that will calm his fears.

Offline SilverLining

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Re: What to do about anxiety in allergic child?
« Reply #1 on: September 06, 2014, 02:35:46 PM »
Hi, welcome to the forum.  :bye:

Does your son know the taste or smell of peanutbutter? 

My middle son decided his younger brother needed to try pb.  The little guy gagged, choked, vomited. So bigger brother was told to not give him it ever again.  A few years later, brother decided to try again....with same result.  I didn't actually think he was allergic to it....I thought he just really hated it.  Testing showed no peanut allergy. (He has non-food allergies.)

Anyway, I'm wondering if your son just doesn't like it.

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As for whether you made a mistake by letting him know how serious his allergy is....I think he needs to be aware of how serious it is.

Again, with my youngest, he was afraid of everything.  (Seriously....everything.)  he was terrified of insects. So, we didn't feel the need to go into detail about how serious it could be if he was bit or stung. (Yes, he's reacted to both bites and stings.). He was being teased at school, and we practiced at home how he should tell a teacher when it happened.  So, at morning recess when a kid was teasing him he went to the teacher on yard duty and told what was happening. When the teacher didn't take it to seriously he explained about being allergic, and showed her his epi-pen.  She went to the other kid, and in her lecture used the word "bullying" and said "this is nothing to laugh about. HE COULD DIE IF HE GETS STUNG!"  And my poor little guy was stuck at school all day, and when I picked him up he asked if it was true he could die from an allergy.  Poor guy. That was definitely the wrong way to find out.