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« on: October 03, 2017, 12:15:27 PM »"Why Won't You Apologize? Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts"
Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.
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"Show Your Work!"
Austin Kleon
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Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.
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The worse the offense and the greater the shame, the more difficult it is for the wrongdoer to empathize with the harmed party and feel remorse.
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Reduce your expectations to zero for getting the response you want and deserve. Speak your truths because you need to speak for your own self - because this is the ground you want to stand on, irrespective of whatever response you receive.
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"Show Your Work!"
Austin Kleon
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When you feel like you've learned whatever there is to learn from what you're doing, it's time to change course and find something new to learn so that you can move forward.
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The thing is, you never really start over. You don't lose all the work that's come before. Even if you try to toss it aside, the lessons that you've learned from it will seep into what you do next.