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Title: Another disappointing appt
Post by: joanna5 on April 11, 2013, 07:27:01 PM
Both of my boys had allergist appts today.  My oldest was being skin tested in hopes of doing a baked egg challenge, so the allergist said we may as well test all of his allergens since he was off meds and getting due for it anyway.  Tons of big welts- they offered him Benadryl afterwards and told us to let them know during any future skin tests that he gets very impressive reactions so they'd check him earlier. Egg and walnut were bigger than the little ruler thing they use to measure them. No baked egg challenge for us anytime soon.  Ugh.

My youngest was skin tested due to some mystery hives- we suspect maybe shrimp as others were eating it at the time.  Milk and eggs remain super reactive and shrimp was borderline.  They also did a RAST on him to see where things stand. 

I go into every appt knowing it's going to suck, but there must be a little part of me that's hopeful because I'm so freaking crushed when they're over.  I *know* the boys aren't going to miraculously have negative skin tests to everything, but I guess I still keep waiting for that miracle.  I want to stop hoping; I need to stop for my own sanity. I just don't know how to, if that makes sense.
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: GoingNuts on April 11, 2013, 09:41:23 PM
Joanna, I feel the same.  I always have to choke back tears as I see the welts appear.  :-[

:grouphug:

 
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: hk on April 11, 2013, 10:02:14 PM
I'm so sorry!  I do the same thing every single year and it never gets any easier.  Take a day or two to wallow in your disappointment and then you'll get back to being in an okay place with it.   :grouphug: :heart: :heart: :heart:
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: Jessica on April 11, 2013, 11:29:57 PM
I'm sorry. We had one of those last summer.  :grouphug:
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: hopechap on April 11, 2013, 11:41:18 PM
I am sorry.  But you can't help having dreams ... and your child healing-- what mom does not dream of that?

Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: Macabre on April 11, 2013, 11:59:44 PM
Oh I know. It's really hard not to get hopes up. :heart:
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: becca on April 12, 2013, 07:59:21 AM
 :grouphug:

It is a blow every time. 
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: MaryM on April 12, 2013, 08:19:21 AM
I've shed many tears at the allergists office.  I'm so sorry your appointment was such a disappointment  :grouphug:
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: PurpleCat on April 13, 2013, 08:13:24 AM
I too know how you feel........................stinks................. :'(
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: lakeswimr on April 13, 2013, 06:02:40 PM
Sorry.  Know the feeling.   And DS always reacts very slowly and on the later side.  The first 5 min often have nothing and even up to close to 10 sometimes nothing and then suddenly gigantic wheels. 
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: notashrimpwimp on April 14, 2013, 05:12:39 AM
 :grouphug:

I'm sorry the results were disappointing. :( Expecting and knowing are two different things.
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: aggiedog on April 14, 2013, 09:00:09 AM
So sorry.  I've been there too.  Knowing it how it will probably go, but secretly hoping it will be something else.
Title: Re: Another disappointing appt
Post by: joanna5 on April 14, 2013, 08:45:48 PM
Thanks, everyone.  We're okay now... still bummed, but it is what is.  Ugh.  Now to wait for my youngest's shrimp results.