Eh.
I think they're still learning. They're only about a year or so into things, after all. I daresay that we probably weren't much better at that point in time.
Sure, they still come across as being a little.. er...
"WE are never going to be reactionary and awful over this... not like SOME people..."
But honestly, they are learning that it doesn't even MATTER how 'reasonable' you think you are being-- because people like Broccoli dad are always going to be out there.
Unless you're willing to be so reasonable, of course, that you simply take your inconveniently afflicted child away and shove him or her into a cupboard under a stairwell and make sure that the rest of humanity never has to see or hear about the problem...
well. Y'all know what I'm getting at.
I'm guessing that in another four or five years, they may well be singing a different tune. Because she seems to be seething about the same things that we do-- that how no matter HOW much we try to take on for ourselves in the way of responsibility, it's never enough for some people, and the only explanations are that those people really ARE that malevolently ignorant, or that they are irretrievably devoid of any and all compassion for anyone. I find the fact that she's noticing that and remarking on it so early is a good sign, mostly.