Where are you? Hope all is OK.

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Macabre

candyguru I don't know how accurate it is to talk about people having dropped off who haven't been here at all in the last ten years or more, yk?  They essentially haven't been a part of this community--this one.
Me: Sesame, shellfish, chamomile, sage
DS: Peanuts

candyguru

Quote from: Macabre on January 31, 2016, 09:49:50 AM
candyguru I don't know how accurate it is to talk about people having dropped off who haven't been here at all in the last ten years or more, yk?  They essentially haven't been a part of this community--this one.

Macabre:  I wrote a light hearted and fun post that new members who were not here 10 years ago would have no idea why I am posting pictures of an abandoned ice cream facility.  So how is that inaccurate?  Inaccurate = "not true", "incorrect"...  How would a new member who joined during the past 10 years know what I am talking about? I have no idea why you say what I wrote is inaccurate.  Perhaps you don't appreciate light hearted and fun in the main discussion board or think that I am confusing new members here so I will stick to off topic next time.

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CANADA, land of maple syrup and poutine
Me:  peanuts, ragweed
DD1:  PRACTICALLY EVERYTHING NOW! peanuts, tree nuts, sesame, eggs, wheat, lentils/peas/beans, leaf mould
DD2:  milk (and avoiding peanuts)

Macabre

Sorry--wrong word. Yeah, I don't know what word would work.

I love the ice cream factory stuff--cracks me up. I guess I just worry about what it looks like to miss people from this group out loud when they haven't been here (I don't know Geoff. I came occasionally from 2000-2004 and got more active in 2005).

I don't know--it makes me sad, like people don't want to be our friends, lol.

I guess I have had really bad personally experiences of people at churches I've been a part of who long for folks who left five years prior. In those particular situations, those people focus on who is gone rather than who is there, including all the new people. In those cases, there is unspoken finger pointing at the minister, even though it's a natural cycle in church life. People come. People go. Focusing on those who have gone doesn't help the community move forward.


So--that's a LOT to lay on a lighthearted post here, I know. ;)

Just explaining my post a bit and the stuff I brought to it.
Me: Sesame, shellfish, chamomile, sage
DS: Peanuts

candyguru

Quote from: Macabre on January 31, 2016, 11:14:06 AM
Sorry--wrong word. Yeah, I don't know what word would work.

I love the ice cream factory stuff--cracks me up. I guess I just worry about what it looks like to miss people from this group out loud when they haven't been here (I don't know Geoff. I came occasionally from 2000-2004 and got more active in 2005).

I don't know--it makes me sad, like people don't want to be our friends, lol.

I guess I have had really bad personally experiences of people at churches I've been a part of who long for folks who left five years prior. In those particular situations, those people focus on who is gone rather than who is there, including all the new people. In those cases, there is unspoken finger pointing at the minister, even though it's a natural cycle in church life. People come. People go. Focusing on those who have gone doesn't help the community move forward.


So--that's a LOT to lay on a lighthearted post here, I know. ;)

Just explaining my post a bit and the stuff I brought to it.

OK, I understand where you are coming from now.  Look forward, don't dwell in the past (I am so old now there is a lot more past to dwell on than future to discover LOL)
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CANADA, land of maple syrup and poutine
Me:  peanuts, ragweed
DD1:  PRACTICALLY EVERYTHING NOW! peanuts, tree nuts, sesame, eggs, wheat, lentils/peas/beans, leaf mould
DD2:  milk (and avoiding peanuts)

GoingNuts

"Speak out against the madness" - David Crosby
N.E. US

PurpleCat

I bet her little bundle is keeping her super busy!  I remember baby days as very blurry and if I got a shower in, I was an accomplished woman!

YouKnowWho

DS1 - Wheat, rye, barley and egg
DS2 - peanuts
DD -  tree nuts, soy and sunflower
Me - bananas, eggplant, many drugs
Southeast USA

CMdeux

Heard from her lately-- they are well, just SUPER busy.  :)
Resistance isn't futile.  It's voltage divided by current. 


Western U.S.

GoingNuts

"Speak out against the madness" - David Crosby
N.E. US

GoingNuts

"Speak out against the madness" - David Crosby
N.E. US

rebekahc

She hasn't been here for 5 days. Worrisome  :-/  I'll see if I can get ahold of her via email...
TX - USA
DS - peanut, tree nut, milk, eggs, corn, soy, several meds, many environmentals. Finally back on Xolair!
DD - mystery anaphylaxis, shellfish.
DH - banana/avocado, aspirin.  Asthma.
Me - peanut, tree nut, shellfish, banana/avocado/latex,  some meds.

rebekahc

Heard back from CM.  All is well, thankfully. :)  She's just been super busy with work and normal family stuff.
TX - USA
DS - peanut, tree nut, milk, eggs, corn, soy, several meds, many environmentals. Finally back on Xolair!
DD - mystery anaphylaxis, shellfish.
DH - banana/avocado, aspirin.  Asthma.
Me - peanut, tree nut, shellfish, banana/avocado/latex,  some meds.

CMdeux

 :bye:

All is well, just VERY busy.  :)   I think of y'all often, though.   :smooch:
Resistance isn't futile.  It's voltage divided by current. 


Western U.S.

GoingNuts

"Speak out against the madness" - David Crosby
N.E. US

CMdeux

Sorry-- again, things have just been crazy-busy. 

:bye:

DD's been having a lot of  asthma trouble this year, unfortunately...    :-/
Resistance isn't futile.  It's voltage divided by current. 


Western U.S.

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