DD is allergic to coconut - reactions and tests. She is also TNA (all) and PA. Two tree nuts, then PA, coconut and the rest of the tree nuts, pine nuts and safflower...
It took us a long time to figure the coconut allergy out. Coconut oil is in so many things.
For your milk options, I work in a store that sells sunflower milk. I think it's called SOL? I have not tried it, DD
has no dairy issues.
As well, there are a number of rice milks available too. Again, I have not tried any, I have heard various comments about them all, but if those are the options, you deal, right?