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Offline ajasfolks2

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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #30 on: July 20, 2013, 06:39:48 PM »
Hey, as to definition of anaphylaxis and when/if to use Epi, I VERY recently had allergist flat out tell us that "only hives" would require that breathing be affected in order to need Epi.

Now, mind you, these were hives that were not just localized due to contact (systemic -- trunk, inside elbows and back of knees, face around mouth) -- this was recent contact that became ingestion and was systemic hives for the child with the lifelong history of severe reactions.  Had I been the PIC (parent in charge) at the time, I would have Epi'd-and-911'd.  The child and PIC chose route of Benadryl with wait-and-see -- which is against most of what we've been told to do previously by this and other allergists.

I'm weary of the mixed messages and the "rules" that seem to change with the tides.

Weary.

And more importantly, confused.  Even after all these years.

Sorry, veering off topic . . . .
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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #31 on: July 20, 2013, 10:08:37 PM »
DS1's idiot allergist told me that may contains and processed on's were overlabeling and we didn't need to avoid.  And if he did react, well that is why you have an epi pen.

Uhhh, pardon me but I view epi's as car insurance - we have to have it, it's a good thing if we need it but I would rather not ever have to use it, kwim?

Now, if I was to post here and have in my siggy that we do not avoid "may contains" or "processed on's" that would be one thing.  But that group is aimed towards people who may be new or who may not read labels all the way through.  To post that Nestle Crunch Bars are safe because you have been cleared to not avoid, does not help someone who does need to.

I made a horrific mistake years ago when I gave my son Canadian Smarties.  I kept reading about them here so I gave them to DS1 in the car without reading the label (huge errors in judgement - new food in the car without reading a label).  Problem is that Canadian Smarties are safe - for those with a peanut allergy, not for those with a wheat allergy.  It was my own fault and I know that.  But I had in my head that they were safe for him because I read about it.
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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #32 on: July 21, 2013, 10:22:27 AM »
Problem is that Canadian Smarties are safe - for those with a peanut allergy, not for those with a wheat allergy.

Yes, Nestle Canada Aero, Kit Kat, Smarties, Coffee Crisp, and Mirage are all peanut-free.  But only Aero & Mirage are wheat free.

And Mars bars are peanut-free.. but contain egg.

Always a challenge keeping track of what is safe with multiple food allergies, as what is peanut-free may contain other allergens.

We have to avoid many gluten-free products.  My daughter is wheat allergic, but many gluten free products contain pea protien (she is legume allergic) or nut flours (she is nut allergic) so the gluten-free products are often not okay for us
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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #33 on: July 23, 2013, 06:16:19 AM »
OMG...somone posted the letter they sent to their son's kindergarten teacher.  This person has decided not to impose on the other families in her child's class and to have her child manage his allergy.  Most of the posts about it are in support of her position.  As others pointed out, though, her approach is not feasible for those who are airborne reactive (but perhaps more commonly, contact reactive).
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« Reply #34 on: July 23, 2013, 07:01:25 AM »
I have to leave the group today.  There is just no way.  Someone kindly posted that people may want to check products out for themselves and not rely on others (which given someone posted about a "may contains" being fine is not a bad idea).  As a result she got a tongue lashing.  And then people were horrified that a life guard was eating nuts and might have to possibly give CPR.  Ummm, nuts are not the only allergens out there and what would you like them to eat?  Someone posted that but apparently no, nut allergies are much more worse than any other allergies.
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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #35 on: July 23, 2013, 08:15:50 AM »
Her response is troublesome and unfortunate. 

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« Reply #36 on: July 23, 2013, 08:18:30 AM »
Ouch.   :-[

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« Reply #37 on: August 17, 2013, 03:31:49 PM »
Wow. Read this horrifying story of what cam happen when Epi is delayed--and by several medical professionals!!!  Look for the second post in this, by Angel Solgot. Wow. I can't believe the doctor wanted to wait. Hopefully that would not happen now.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/POKWASPeanutAllergy/permalink/10151589089902876/
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« Reply #38 on: August 20, 2013, 07:58:01 PM »
OMG, someone on that Parents of Children with Severe Peanut Allergy trotted out that horrible Meredith Broussard article as FACT about the number of food allergy deaths per year.  This person parrotted Broussard and said it's fewer than 200 per year.  She linked to a Huffpo article to refute my link to aafa.org.  Thankfully, Sloan Miller interviewed a doctor who took Broussard to task for that stat.
 
Seriously? Huffpo as a source of facts? What's next, citing Wikipedia? It never ceases to amaze me when people cannot look at source material critically.
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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #39 on: August 21, 2013, 10:29:38 AM »
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Shades of yesteryear . . .

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Is this where I blame iPhone and cuss like an old fighter pilot's wife?

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Re: Other online groups. Ugh.
« Reply #40 on: August 31, 2013, 11:37:55 AM »
The group owner posted a link to this board (in a thread where a different specific link to here was posted).
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« Reply #41 on: August 31, 2013, 12:19:25 PM »
I think the owner of the group is doing a good thing by reaching out to folks in a way that reaches them. I am just concerned by some of the posts by members. 
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