I agree with Ark. I foolishly sent dd to school with a soy butter and jelly sandwich during kindergarten. The staff had had it drummed into their heads that dd can`t be near anything peanut. About a week into kindergarten one of other kids shreaked " ________ has peanut butter!". The staff panicked, took it away, ran for the epi and then when the noise had stopped, dd said it was soy butter. Never again have I done that. The way I view it is that if I want them to keep my child safe, it is my job not to do anything confusing. There is also the issue of someone switching the soy butter sandwich for a pb sandwich as a joke. That would be life threatening for dd. And also there will be those who think it is pb, but don`t say anything. That gets into the issue of mixed messages. If child cannot be near pb, then why are they eating it? Not everyone is going to ask, they may just wonder.